Tuesday, 10 January 2017

THE LANGUAGES OF LOVE COUPLES SHOULD UNDERSTAND

Love has many languages. By this, we mean that there are different ways that people express love and recognize it. Many times, the way that a person expresses love is not the same way that their partner wants to hear it. Imagine, if you will, two people who are speaking different languages to one another – say, Chinese and Swahili. Even though one of them might be saying ‘I love you’ in her language, the other person simply has no clue that this is a message of love. They are not communicating in the same wavelength.
Many times, a person feels unloved by his or her spouse because the expected language to hear that love never materializes. Yet, if the spouse were asked about his or her feelings, it would become clear that true love does actually exist. It’s just a matter of not communicating the feeling
of love properly to the other party. For example, some people express their love by wanting to spend quality time with their beloved.
This is generally more common amongst women. If a wife does not get to spend quality time with her husband, she might feel unloved, even if he is showing his love to her in other ways (by spending his money on her, for example). On the other hand, other people express love by physical
acts, such as kissing and sexual activity. This is more common amongst men. When a man regularly approaches his wife, he is showing that he loves her. Yet, the wife is not ‘hearing’ this love because in her vocabulary, love must be expressed in a different language – that of time. Unless
and until she sees this aspect, she will find it difficult to understand that her husband loves her.
Another language of love is helping the one whom you love. A wife might show her love for her husband by taking care of his daily needs and household chores. But it is possible that the husband does not hear this love, because he is not tuned into this language! Rather, he might be
expecting it in different ways. Therefore, all of the acts of devotion and dedication that the wife shows to her husband are simply ‘tuned out’, like a foreign language, because that is not what he wants to hear to confirm his wife’s love for him.
By understanding the different ways that people show love, each spouse can better appreciate the languages of love that his or her spouse speaks. Many people unknowingly speak more than one language of love – however, until the other partner learns to listen to and recognize that language, all of these beautiful expressions of love will be lost and evaporate into thin air.

Extracted from: Likeagarment Ebook by Dr. Yasir Qadhi.

OUR DAWAH ORIENTATION IS LOST


Written by: Abideen Muhammed Ayomide

The present callers don’t only break the pledge between him and His lord but also ravage the effort of those before him. Our fore runners donated their blood to grow the “seed of Islam” but become herculean to the present callers to wet the seed with ordinary water.

My declaration is: the labor of our heroes past is dampened. Where lies the Dawah orientation in this snooty generation?

The issue is not open to debate but instead of fixing the problem; our scholar decides to fix the blame on one another. We see our brethren fighting over trivial issues. Issues that causes division among the Muslim community.

It is very pathetic and disgusting to see ourselves in this kind of situation. Who will inculcate the right sense of reasoning in this generation?

Gone were those days where brethren were fired with zeal of “Dawah-hood”. They stop doing it till their last breath without complaining as we do. They know what it takes to be an Islamic caller. The only thing that cut them short in Dawah track is “death”. Their sacrifice is immensurable!

Within us “Dawah orientation” is gone and gone forever but instead of fixing the problem, I found everyone pointing the finger of blame on one another and/or making Islam awkward for others and as a result, it makes people to dislike the word: sunnah since this irresponsible attitudes are portrayed by the so called Sunnist.

All verses and Hadith talking about preventing vices and promoting virtues is of no use to this 21st generation. We practice what I called “me and my Islam alone” as every female would love to practice “me and my husband alone” marriage.

Your sacrifice for Islam will be questioned irrespective of whom you are and your level of understanding. WHAT WILL YOU TELL HIM ON THE DAY OF RECKONING?

Ask yourself before you are asked: what have I contributed to the development of Islam? Am I solving the problems facing Islam and the entire Muslim community or adding to it? One thing I know that keeps me moving is that if you don’t work for Allah, you will surely work for Devil – No idle man in this noble game. It is now left for you to reason with your sense of reasoning? WHO WOULD YOU YIELD TO HIS CALL? Allah or Shaytan?

It is pertinent to be the voice of the ummah is this era where the ship of Dawah-Hood was thrown in deep ocean in 1948 (Spain Saga).

The lost of Dawah orientation is a deep problem, painful problem – problem that quick fix approaches, may not solve.

Moral decadency is the common business everybody ventures into in this our era so it needs a dedicated caller to reform our society. This is the era that Dawah is important, even vital. We need to work together to re-establish the Muslim system of government through Dawah; a must for every Muslim.

TEAM WORK:

As a youth, you need to be useful to Islam and know that God will ask you of two Islam. Individual Islam and group Islam. It is your personal Islam that will assist you in helping others to practice Islam. Don’t be stingy; help others to thread the right path.

Individualism Dawah will not lead to us to our desire goal so we need to come together. We need to form a strong bond. Team work is needed in Dawah work. It was team work that disappeared in our midst before Dawah itself becomes something of the past.

In the absence of team work; Dawah becomes a “lip service”. Everybody is doing Dawah with Sugar coated mouth since no one is there to cross check the achievement of Islam through Dawah.

Islam is fine as long as "my Islam" is okay is the unspoken message of our brethren.

We are waiting for reaping the fruit of Islam for so long when we have not sown; perhaps we have forgotten the need to sow! Where lies our Dawah orientation?

The exit of dawah zeal is a problem just as Shaytan is our open enemy!

Another problem also emerged within the circle. We have a quiet number of brothers working so hard to revive the lost “Dawah orientation” but mixed up with semi-zeal brethren. It is now cumbersome to fish out those that are working and those that are picturing.

What a waste to fail to unleash the principle of creative cooperation in developing solutions to problems that are better than either party’s original notion!

God does not hang the work of Islam on any society or personality shoulder. It is everybody’s duty.

I challenge everyone reading this to flash back. If you think deeply you will see that some people contributed to your success. God used them to guide you. They mentor you. The question is who do you want to mentor? A successful man without a successor is a success failure.

The destruction of team work:

As a muslim, we need not to be up and doing alone, we also need to be sagacious. We need to be mindful of the evil of the west. They understand the strength of team work so they won’t want us to be one.

It is when we personalized our Dawah that zeal of dawah traveled to an unimaginable destruction land.
We also divided into different components devoid of any substance. As a result of love for power and leadership? How to is the word; power intoxicate?  Everybody want to bear the tittle "Amir" and the likes. We love to own our own society.

The question is are we ready to work for Islam or want to hold unto power  alone?

EMOTIONAL DAWAH:

I will not want us to venture into this Dawah without proper planning. We should not let our emotion to drive us into action without preparation. Reviving the lost Heritage requires a proper planning. Islam needs you and your intelligence.

GHOST WORKERS:

It is of no use to have ghost workers in the midst of brethren striving to revive the lost heritage. Ghost workers are those working against Islam in disguise of dawah. The west succeeded in playing soccer with their mentality and those morally, spiritually decline people. They are on dawah track yet the keep illegal relationship; tell lies, etc. how would Allah reward a hypocrite?

They have hidden agenda. They are an opportunist. They always long for world gain of dawah-hood.

My brother let us all re-think and see the need to come together and work for the betterment of Islam.

Oh Allah! Let those that see wrong thing in team work understand what we are doing.

Oh Allah! Help us to lift your religion –Islam!

Oh Allah! Unite the entire Muslim.

MARITAL BLISS IS A GOAL OF SHARI'AH

There are many other traditions that state the importance of finding conjugal happiness within the folds of marriage. The Prophet salla Allahu
alayhi wa sallam himself said, “From this world, women and perfume have been made beloved to me, but the coolness of my eyes comes from prayer” [al-Bukhari]. In one hadith we learn, “This whole world is an enjoyment, and its best enjoyment is a righteous wife” [Muslim]. Another hadith states “I advise you to marry young women, for they have sweeter lips…and are more passionate in their embrace” [Reported by Ibn Majah, al-Tabarani, and others, and it is hasan]. And finally, we are advised in the traditions, “If one of you approaches his wife, and then wishes
to repeat, let him do wudhu, for it will make the recurrence more energetic” [Abu Dawud].

Benefits:
- In all of these hadiths, we see once again the clear encouragement to engage in passionate and fulfilling intimate relations with one’s spouse.
- Even the blessed Prophet salla Allahu alayhi wa sallam found comfort in his wives, but the comfort that prayer and turning to Allah gave him was obviously the most sweet and pure.
- In another hadith, the Companion is told that a woman of his age would be better because her passion would be more. Better kissing is explicitly mentioned, and more passionate sex is hinted at.
- A righteous wife (and, by analogy, a good husband) is the best enjoyment of this world. Pure, halal, encouraged enjoyment.
- The frank advice given in the last tradition makes it crystal clear that we should aim to have passionate sex lives. No less a figure than our beloved Prophet informed us of ways to increase that passion. Washing oneself after a first act invigorates the body and rejuvenates the soul, and thus
helps in repeating the act again.
- In this last tradition, one method of increasing passion is mentioned. This shows that other methods may also be studied and taught.
- Notice that while the message is crystal clear in each and every one of these traditions, never is the wording vulgar, nor is the language crude. Similarly, we should be frank in our teachings, but there is no need to employ unbefitting language.

Extracted from: Likeagarment Ebook by Dr. Yasir Qadhi

INTIMACY IN THE QUR'AN

The Qur’aan frequently references sexual activity. In dozens of verses, Allah mentions the process of creation. In one verse, the Qur’aan says: “Let man see what he has been created from. He has been created from a liquid that is spurt out (i.e., ejaculated), which proceeded from between
the backbones and the ribs” [Surah al-Tariq; 5-7]. Many commentators stated that the reference to ‘…between the backbones and ribs’ is to a common sexual position, and the backbone is that of the man and the ribs that of the women. And Allah says, “Your women are your field, so come to them as and when you please” [Surah al-Baqara; 223]
Ata (d. 103 AH), the famous Successor, said that whenever he would recite the Qur’aan to Ibn Abbas, Ibn Abbas would never interrupt him, but rather listen intently (to ensure correct recitation). However, when he recited this verse, Ibn Abbas stopped him and said, “Do you know why
this verse was revealed? Some Jews of Madinah used to believe that if a man approached a woman from her back (one version adds: while she was kneeling), the child would be born deformed. So Allah revealed this verse, allowing men to approach their wives in any position.”
Similarly, in the famous hadith regarding the prohibition of anal intercourse, the Prophet salla Allahu  alayhi wa sallam said, “Allah is not embarrassed at the truth: approach her (i.e., your wife) from her front or from her back, but avoid the anus” [Abu Dawud].

Benefit:
The Qur’aan and Sunnah, being the divine code of guidance that they are, mention the issue of various sexual positions, but do so without going into unnecessary details and unbefitting descriptions.
Enough is said to get the point across, and other details are left to the couple’s experience and imagination. Similarly, the standard books of tafseer, hadith explanations, and fiqh works do not take on the role of sex manuals, but rather mention enough to explain what is and what is not
permissible.

In the verse that Ibn Abbas explained, Allah revealed it in response to an awkward situation regarding the permissibility of a particular position. One of the spouses refused to engage in intimacy in this position, believing that it was impermissible, and that it would be harmful if it
resulted in pregnancy. At this, Allah revealed a beautiful simile: the conjugal act is similar to a farmer planting seeds in a field. The farmer has many options in how he plants those seeds, and is not restricted to any one manner. Similarly, the Prophet salla Allahu alayhi wa sallam clarified that as long as intimacy occurred in the right place, the Shariah did not dictate or restrict how intimacy occurred.

Extracted from: Likeagarment Ebook by Dr. Yasir Qadhi.

Sunday, 8 January 2017

GENERAL MUSLIM VIEWS ON JESUS


Al-Baidawi (d. 1286), a Qur'anic exegesist, wrote the text, Anwar at-Tanzil wa Asrar at-Tawail (The Lights of Revelation and the Secrets of Interpretation). He took from earlier works such as those by Zamakhshari and expanded them, subsequently his work is considered to be amongst the best commentaries on the Qur'an.
Allah, the Almighty, says:
"And because they said: We slew the Messiah, Jesus son of Mary, the messenger of God. But they did not slay him, nor did they crucify him, for only a likeness of him was shown to them. Those who disagree concerning it surely are in doubt regarding him. They have no knowledge of him, but only follow surmise. And it is certain that they did not slay him! No indeed, God raised him up to Himself. God is All Mighty, All Wise." [Al-Qur'an 4:157]
"And because they said: We slew the Messiah, Jesus son of Mary, the messenger of God."
This is because the Jews asserted this. It is however also possible that the Jews said this only scornfully as is the case in a similar situation with the words of Pharoah concerning Moses ("Pharoah said: Surely your messenger who is sent to you is a madman," [Al-Qur'an 26:27]), and that God took up this assertion of the Jews again in order to praise Jesus or to replace their evil account with a good one.
"But they did not slay him, nor did they crucify him, for only a likeness of him was shown to them."
It is related that a group of Jews insulted Jesus and his mother, whereupon Jesus appealed to God against them. When God turned them into monkeys and swines, the Jews came to an agreement to kill Jesus. Then God informed Jesus that He would raise Jesus to heaven, so Jesus said to his disciples, "Who among you will agree to take a form similar to mine and die in my place and be crucified then go straight to heaven?" A man among them offered himself, so God changed him into a form to look like Jesus, and he was killed and crucified.
Others say that a man pretended to be a believer in front of Jesus and then went away denouncing him, whereupon God changed this man into a form similar to that of Jesus, and then he was seized and crucified.
Still others say that the Jew Titanus entered a house where Jesus was, with a treacherous intention, but could not find him. Then God changed him into a form similar to Jesus, and when he came outside people thought he was Jesus and so they seized and crucified him.
Similar unusual things which one may not find improbable for the time of the Prophets have been reported on this subject.
When God blames the Jews (in this context), it is only because their words showed that they acted impudently towards God, wishing to kill his Prophet in spite of the confirmation of the Prophethood of Jesus through overwhelming miracles (mu'jizat), and furthermore they rejoiced in doing so.
"Those who disagree concerning it ... "
That is concerning the state in which Jesus was. For as soon as this event (the crucifixion of another person in Jesus's place) occurred, the people disagreed concerning it. Some Jews said, "Jesus was a liar when he said God would raise him up to heaven, for we certainly killed him!" Others hesitated, and some of these said, "If this crucified person is Jesus, then where is our companion who wanted to betray him?" Others said, "That is the face of Jesus, but the body is that of our companion." Those however, who had heard Jesus when he said, "God will raise me up to heaven," said, "He was raised into heaven."
Allah, the Almighty, also says:
"And he (i.e. Jesus) is the sign of the Hour (i.e. of the day of Judgement). Have no doubt about the hour and follow Me (i.e. obey the command of God)! This is a straight path (i.e. Islam)." [Al-Qur'an 43:61]
"And he", that is Jesus, "is the sign of the Hour of the day of Judgement", since his appearance or his coming down from heaven is among the signs which will announce that the Hour of the Day of Judgement is near.
In the hadith, it is reported that Jesus will come down over a mountain in the Holy Land called Afiq, and in his hand he will carry a spear with which he will kill the antichrist (dajjal) (see also, the false Christ in Matthew 24:24, which in Syriac is mshihe daggale). He will then go to Jerusalem (bayt al-muqaddas) just when the inhabitants are performing the morning prayer. The imam (leader of the prayer) will want to step back (in view of Jesus appearance and let him lead), but Jesus will give him precedence to perform the prayer behind him. Then he will kill the swine, dash to pieces the crucifix, demolish the churches and synagogues, and kill the people who do not have the correct belief of him.
The general Muslim view of Jesus is as follows:
  1. He was born of the Virgin Mary (Maryam in Arabic - see the chapter by that name in the Qur'an for further details);
  2. He was, by the Mercy of Allah, able to perform miracles (see Qur'anic and hadith references);
  3. To him was revealed the Injil (see Qur'anic and hadith references - n.b. the Injil in NO WAY constitutes what is today known as the New Testament);
  4. Jesus was raised to heaven - he did not die on the cross; and
  5. Jesus will return as the Messiah - this does not mean that we raise the status of Jesus to me more than that of a man as Jesus, like Moses, Noah, Muhammad, Abraham, Yunus, etc., peace be upon them all, were all Prophets and we do not distinguish between them.
May Allah, the Almighty, have mercy and protect us from the evil of ourselves, the evil of shaytan (Satan), and the evil of Satan's partnership.
AL-BAYDAWI

CONDITIONS OF SHAHADA (LAA ILAAHA ILLA LA).

The First Condition: Knowledge (Ilm)
That is, one must have the basic and general knowledge of what is meant by the shahadah. One must understand what the shahadah is affirming and what the shahadah is denying. Allah says in the Qur'an:
"So know that there is no God save Allah, and ask forgiveness for your sin."
Al-Qur'an 47:19
Similarly, the Prophet, peace be upon him, said, "Whoever dies knowing that there is no one worthy of worship except Allah shall enter Paradise" [Recorded by Muslim]. In fact, the shahadahitself is a testimony. When one testifies to something, one must know what it is that he is testifying concerns. Obviously, a testimony about something that one does not have any knowledge about is absolutely unacceptable. Allah says in the Qur'an:
"Save him who bears witness unto the truth knowingly."
Al-Qur'an 43:86
Now this condition probably sounds obvious; if someone said to you, "There is no God except Allah," and then said that what he meant by Allah was Jesus, you would immediately tell him that this shahadah is nonsense. Yet can you imagine that there is a Muslim country in the world that until recently used to have a yearly week-long celebration to "the Gods of the Sea"! All along they call themselves Muslims and they make the shahadah numerous times a day. This clearly shows that they have no idea what the meaning of their shahadah is. Do you think that this kind of shahadah will open the doors to Paradise for them? Today, there are many Muslims who wonder why we should not accept secularism. They think that there is nothing wrong with secularism! Many of these Muslims pray five times a day and utter the shahadah repeatedly. Yet they see nothing wrong with accepting a Lawgiver other than Allah? What kind of shahadah are these people making?
All of us do our best to learn at least the basics of Islamic beliefs, the basics of what shahadahmeans. In this way, Allah willing, we will be making the correct shahadah. We will be witnessing to the truth as we are supposed to be witnesses to it.

The Second Condition: Certainty (Yaqin)

This is the opposite of doubt and uncertainty. In Islam, in fact, any kind of doubt is equivalent to kufr or disbelief. We must, in our hearts, be absolutely certain of the truth of the shahadah. Our hearts must not be wavering in any way when we testify to the truth of, "There is none worthy of worship except Allah." Allah describes the believers in the Qur'an as those who have belief in Allah and then their hearts waver not. Allah says:
"... the (true) believers are those only who believe in Allah and His messenger and afterward doubt not, but strive with their wealth and their lives for the cause of Allah. Such are the sincere."
Al-Qur'an 49:15
Similarly, the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him,said, "No one meets Allah with the testimony that there is none worthy of worship but Allah and I am the Messenger of Allah, and he has no doubt about hat statement, except that he will enter Paradise" [Recorded by Muslim]. Indeed, Allah describes the hypocrites as those people whose hearts are wavering. For example, Allah says:
"They alone seek leave of thee (not to participate in jihad) who believe not in Allah and the Last Day and whose hearts feel doubt, so in their doubt they waiver."
Al-Qur'an 9:45
Many scholars have stated that the diseases of the heart, or the doubt and suspicions that one allows into one's heart, are more dangerous for a person's faith than lusts and desires. This is because lusts and desires may be satisfied at some time yet the person still knows them to be wrong and he may control himself and repent and give up that evil deed. On the other hand, the doubts and suspicions may linger in the heart, with no cure, until the person finally leaves Islam entirely or continues to practice Islam while, in fact, in his heart he does not have the true faith. The greatest cure for these doubts is seeking knowledge. It is through sound knowledge of the Qur'an and the sunnah that most of these doubts will be removed. By study and understanding, one will attain certainty. And as one studies and learns more, his certainty will be made firmer and firmer. I will give you just one example on this point; this is related to all of the doubts, suspicions and misconceptions that are circulating about the authenticity of the hadithliterature. For example, some Muslims even claim that hadith were not recorded until at least 200 years after the death of the Prophet, peace be upon him. Indeed, there are Muslims who seem to have a great deal of doubt about hadith and very quick to reject hadith on that basis. But, in fact, if one actually takes the time to study the history and preservation of hadith, one will immediately recognise that all those claims and charges against the hadith are not based on anything scientific whatsoever. They are nothing but false claims that come from Satan and which Muslims with poor understanding and knowledge have allowed to creep into their hearts. Let me make one last point about this condition of certainty. As I alluded to earlier, doubts and misconceptions are very dangerous for a person's faith. Doubt and wavering are tantamount to apostasy in Islam, as I mentioned earlier. Hence, every Muslim should do best to safeguard himself from such doubts and remain away from the sources of doubts - especially if they are not well grounded in the Islamic sciences and do not have the knowledge to refute such doubts and misconceptions. Hence if a person has an associate or friend, even if he be a Muslim friend, who is always making him doubt Allah or the religion, then he should remain away from that person in order to safeguard his own religion. Many Muslims nowadays study courses on Islam taught by Orientalists and because of their weak backgrounds in Islamic studies, they are influenced by the nonsense that some of these Orientalists are teaching in the name of "science". Similarly, many brothers and sisters nowadays are spending hours at a time with the computer newsgroups and bulletin boards. A lot of nonsense and falsehood are posted on those newsgroups and bulletin boards. Again, the one who is not very knowledgeable of his religion may easily be influenced and affected by the misconceptions and false arguments that he reads in those bulletin boards. He should remain away from those things and get a deeper knowledge of Islam through the authentic sources of the religion. Again, the greatest counterforce that can defeat doubts and misconceptions, after the bounty and guidance of Allah, is sound knowledge and understanding of the religion. When a person has that, he will not be affected by the weak arguments put out by the enemies of Islam and he will be, Allah willing, from among those described in the Qur'an:
"It is only those who have knowledge among His slaves that fear Allah."
Al-Qur'an 35:28

The Third Condition: Acceptance (Qabul)

If a person has knowledge of and certainty in the shahadah, this must followed by acceptance, with the tongue and heart, of whatever that shahadah implies. Whoever refuses to accept the shahadah and its implications, even if he knows that it is true and certain about its truth, than he is a disbeliever. This refusal to accept is sometimes due to pride, envy or other reasons. In any case, the shahadah is not a true shahadah without its unconditional acceptance. The scholars all talk about this condition as a general condition in the way that I have just stated. However, there is also a more detailed aspect that we must all be aware of. The believer accepts whatever the implications of the shahadah are. This also means that he believes in whatever is stated in the shahadah or stated by the Prophet, peace be upon him, without any right to choose what he wants to believe and what he wants to reject. Allah says in the Qur'an:
"Do you believe in part of the book and reject part of it? And what is the reward of those who do so save ignominy in the life of the world, and on the Day of Resurrection they will be consigned to the most grievous doom."
Al-Quran 2:85
This is one aspect that the Muslims must be aware of. Although it is not the same as the complete refusal to accept the truth, by rejecting part of the truth that has come from Allah, one also negates his testimony of faith. Unfortunately, many Muslims are doing this nowadays in various ways. Although not all of these forms may necessarily be considered apostasy, they are still very dangerous. For example, if they do not like what is stated in a verse in the Qur'an, they simply reinterpret the verse according to their liking. If they do not like what is stated in a hadith, they simply state that the hadith must not be authentic although they are not scholars in that area. This kind of behaviour is the antithesis of the behaviour of the true Muslims. Whatever comes from Allah and His Messenger, peace be upon him, the true Muslim believes in as the truth. This goes hand in hand with their testimony of faith.

The Fourth Condition: Submission (Inqiyad)

This implies the actual physical enactment with our deeds of our shahadah. In fact, this is one of the main meanings of the word Islam itself, "the submission to the will and commands of Allah." This is what Allah commands in the Qur'an:
"Turn unto Him repentant, and surrender unto Him."
Al-Qur'an 39:54
Allah has praised those who submit to His command by their actions. Allah says:
"Who is better in religion than he who surrenders his purpose to Allah while doing good."
Al-Qur'an 4:125
Actually, Allah has clearly made it a condition of faith that one submits to the command of Allah and His messenger. Allah says:
"But nay, by your Lord, they will not truly believe until they make you [the Messenger of Allah] judge of what is in dispute between them and find within themselves no dislike of which you decide, and submit with full submission."
Al-Qur'an 4:65
Unfortunately, there are many who claim that there is no relationship between faith and deeds. You can even hear one Muslim saying about another, "That is the best Muslim I have ever met," yet the other person performs scarcely any of the deeds of Islam whatsoever. This incorrect understanding of faith has spread throughout the Muslim world. Indeed, our shahadah or testimony of faith must be implemented or realised in our hearts, tongues and actions. In our hearts, we must have love for Allah, fear Allah and hope in Him. With our tongues we must testify to the shahadah. And with our actions, we must implement what the testimony of faith requires from us. Anyone who claims to be a Muslim and yet does no deeds, either does not understand Islam whatsoever or is bearing testimony against himself that his testimony of faith is not a true and correct testimony of faith. This does not mean that the true believer never commits a sin. Indeed, true believers do commit sins, but as long as they recognise that what they did is not correct and it is inconsistent with their obligation of submitting to Allah, then they have not violated the soundness of their testimony or shahadah. But do not forget, they are still sinners. And what is the minimum of submission that is required from a person beyond which there can be no claim to faith? For those scholars who say that the abandonment of prayers is infidelity, it is the five daily prayers. Whoever does not perform, at least, the five daily prayers has gone beyond the limit that is acceptable for lack of deeds. Allah knows best.
The Fifth Condition: Truthfulness (Sidq)
As opposed to hypocrisy and dishonesty. This means that when we say the shahadah, we are saying it honestly. We actually mean it. We are not lying when it comes to our testimony of faith. The Prophet, peace be upon him, said, "No one bears testimony to there being no one worth of worship save Allah, sincerely from his heart, except that Allah makes the Hell-fire forbidden for him" [Agreed upon]. We are all familiar with those who say the testimony of faith yet they are not saying it honestly. They do not believe in it but they are simply saying it in order to protect themselves or to get some gain from doing so; these are the hypocrites. Allah has described them in the opening of the Qur'an with the following words:
"And of mankind are some who say, 'We believe in Allah and the Last Day,' when they believe not. They think to beguile Allah and those who believe, and they beguile none save themselves, but they perceive not. In their hearts is a disease, and Allah increases their disease. A painful doom is theirs because they lie."
Al-Qur'an 2:8-10
Obviously, the shahadah of those who become Muslims simply to benefit from being Muslim and not because they believe in Islam will be rejected by Allah in the Hereafter. They will face a painful punishment due to their lying.

The Sixth Condition: Sincerity (Ikhlas)

That is, when we make the shahadah, we must do so solely for the sake of Allah. We must not do it for any other reason. And we must not do it for anyone else's sake. In this manner, the meaning of sincerity is opposite of shirk or ascribing partners with Allah. We became and remain Muslims solely for Allah's sake. Allah says in the Qur'an:
"Worship Allah, making religion pure for him."
Al-Qur'an 39:2
And Allah also says:
"And they are ordained not else than to serve Allah, keeping religion pure for Him, as men by nature upright and to establish worship and to pay the poor-due. That is true religion."
Al-Qur'an 98:5
And the Prophet, peace be upon him, added, "Allah has forbidden for the Hell-fire anyone who says, 'There is no one worthy of worship except Allah,' and say so desiring the face [and pleasure] of Allah" [Recorded by Muslim]. This is something that we should all think about, especially those of us who grew up in Muslim families and were born Muslim. We should make it very clear to ourselves that we are Muslims only for the sake of Allah. We are not Muslims for the sake of our parents, friends, family or community. It must be clear in our minds that we are Muslims for the sake of Allah first, last and only. One of the signs that we are Muslims for the sake of Allah is that we do whatever Allah asks of us, regardless of what anybody else desires or wants from us. That is, in the same way that we are Muslims solely for the sake of Allah, all of our actions are done for the sake of Allah. However, sometimes one begins to wonder whether this condition is met by some people. Some people from the Muslim world practice Islam to the extent that it is pleasing to their families. If there is anything in Islam that their families do not like-although their families are Muslim and therefore they actually should like all of Islam- then they do not practice that aspect of Islam. One common example of that nature is mixing between men and women. Sometimes a brother, here in the U.S., will not mix with women and his wife will remain separate from the men. Yet, when they return to their homes, because this is not pleasing to their families who want to mix between men and women, they easily, simply and happily compromise their religion for the sake of their parents. These people must sincerely ask themselves why they are Muslims. Are they Muslims for the sake of their parents and therefore whatever their parents like they will do and whatever their parents do not like they won't do? Or are they Muslims for the sake of Allah and therefore whatever Allah dislikes they will not do and whatever Allah is pleased with what they do?

The Seventh Condition: Love (Mahabbah)

That is, the believer loves this shahadah, he loves in accordance with the shahadah, he loves the implications and requirements of the shahadah and he loves those who act and strive for the sake of this shahadah. This is a necessary condition of the shahadah. If a person makes the shahadah but does not love the shahadah and what it stands for, then, in fact, his faith is not complete. It is not the faith of a true believer. And if he loves something more that this shahadah or if he loves something more than Allah, then he has negated his shahadah. The true believer, the one meeting the conditions of the shahadah puts no one whatsoever as an equal to Allah in his love. Allah says in the Qur'an:
"Yet of mankind are some who take unto themselves (objects of worship which they set as) rivals to Allah, loving them with a love like (that which is due to) Allah only. However, those who believe are stauncher in their love of Allah."
Al-Qur'an 2:165
And elsewhere Allah says:
"Say: If your fathers, or your sons, or your brethren, or your wives, or your tribe, or the wealth you have acquired, or merchandise for which you fear that there will be no sale, or dwellings you desire are dearer to you than Allah and His Messenger and striving in His way: then wait till Allah brings His command to pass. Allah guides not wrongdoing folk."
Al-Qur'an 9:24
The Prophet, peace be upon him, said, "Whoever has three characteristics has tasted the sweetness of faith. [The first of these] is that he loves Allah and His Messenger more than he loves anyone else ... " [Agreed upon]. This is one of the most important aspects of Islam yet, for some reason, it is missing from the lives of many Muslims. They act in Islam as if Islam were a chore instead of doing things out of the love of Allah. When Allah orders us to do something, like bear witness to the faith, we should realise that that thing is pleasing to Allah and, therefore, out of our love for Allah, we should be very pleased to do the acts that are pleasing to Allah. But, as I said, this feeling is missing from many, many Muslims today.

The Eighth Condition: Denial of All Other Deities

Although that is clear in the words of the testimony of faith, it does not seem clear to everyone who makes that testimony. Therefore, I am mentioning it explicitly here. In Surah al-Baqarah, Allah clearly reminds us of this important aspect of the shahadah, the shahadah is not merely an affirmation but it is both and affirmation and a negation. Allah states:
"And he who rejects false deities and believes in Allah has grasped a firm handhold which will never break."
Al-Qur'an 2:256
Perhaps the Prophet, peace be upon him,made this point even clearer when he said, "Whoever says there is no one worthy of worship except Allah and denies whatever is worshipped besides Allah, then his wealth and blood are protected and his accounting will be with Allah" [Recorded by Muslim]. Although this condition should be obvious to everyone who says the words of shahadah, you can still find Muslims who say the shahadah and then make acts of worship for beings or things other than Allah. You will find them going to the graveyards and worshipping those in the graves. They will perform acts of worship, not for the sake of Allah, but for the sake of the dead "saints" in the grave. What kind of shahadah have these people made? Do you really think that their shahadah will mean anything on the Day of Judgement as long as they believe that acts of worship may be done for other than Allah?

The Ninth Condition: Adherence until Death

This is must if the shahadah is to mean anything for you in the Hereafter. You cannot rest on your laurels of what you may have done in the past. No, indeed, the shahadah must be your banner until your death. The Prophet, peace be upon him, said, "A man spends a long time doing the deeds of the people of Paradise and then he ends his deeds with the deeds of the people of the Hell-fire. And a man spends a long time doing the deeds of the people of the Hell-fire and then he ends his deeds with the deeds of the people of Paradise" [Recorded by Muslim]. In another hadith, the Prophet, peace be upon him, said, "By the One whom there is no other God, one of you does the actions of Paradise until there is just a handspan between him and Paradise and then the book [preordainment] overtakes him and he does the actions of the people of Hell and he enters into it" [Agreed upon]. And Allah says in the Qur'an:-
"O believers, observe your duty to Allah with right observance, and die not save as Muslims [surrendering yourselves to Allah]."
Al-Qur'an 3:102
JAMAAL AD-DIN M. ZARABOZO

UNDERSTANDING THE CONCEPT OF INNOVATION IN THE RELIGION

An Introduction to Innovation in the Language

It is a valid form of innovation, it is an invention without a preceding likeness. And from it is the statement of Allah the Exalted"Inventor of the Heavens and the Earth." [Al-Qur'an 2:117] That is, the Innovator of those two things on other than a preceding likeness. The statement of the Exalted, "Say, I am not a new one from amongst the messengers." [Al-Qur'an 46:9]
That is, "I am not the first who came with a message from Allah to the slaves, rather there have preceded before me, many from amongst the messengers." And it can be said, "So and so innovated (ibtada') an innovation (bid'ah)," meaning that he invented a way not having a predecessor for it.
Innovating is divided into two:
  1. Innovating in 'adat (customs, habits, culture, etc.) such as inventing innovations of speech, and this is permissible (mub'ah), because the basic principle regarding 'adat is one of permissibility (ibahah).
  2. And innovating in the religion, then this is prohibited because the basic principle regarding it is one of tawaquf (restriction to authentic texts). He sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam said, "Whoever invents (ahdatha) in this matter of ours what is not from it, then it is rejected." [Agreed upon] And in a narration, "Whoever performs an action not in accordance with our matter, then it is rejected." [Sahih Muslim]

Innovation in Religion is of Two Types

The First Type: Innovation in statements of belief, such as the sayings of the Jahmiyyah, and the Mu'tazilah, and the Rafidhah, and the generally known misguided sects and their beliefs.
The Second Type: Innovation in the acts of worship, such as worshipping Allah with an act of worship which is not legislated. And it has four divisions:
  1. It has no origin ('asl) in worship, rather it is a newly invented form of worship having no origin in the law (Shar'); Such as inventing prayer not legislated, or fasts not having a Shari'ah legislated origin, or days of celebration such as the celebration of birthdays, and other than that.
  2. What exists from additions in the legislated worship, like if one were to add a fifth rak'ah in the Noon (Dhuhr) prayer, or the afternoon ('Asr) prayer for example.
  3. What exists in the characteristics of carrying out legislated worship. To perform it on a manner not legislated; such as carrying out legislated remembrances (Adhkar singular: Dhikr) in simultaneous and melodious voices, and such as being extreme on oneself in worship to the point of leaving from the Sunnah of the Messenger sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam.
  4. What exists from specification of a time for legislated worship which was not specified by the law (shar') such as specifying the middle night of Sha'ban and it's day for fasting and prayer. So verily fasting and praying have a basis in the Religion, but specifying them to a time from amongst the times is in need of a proof.

The Ruling of Innovation in the Religion, With All of Its Types

Every innovation in the religion is forbidden, and a misguidance because of the statement of the Messenger sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam"And beware of newly invented matters, for every newly invented thing is an innovation, and every innovation is a misguidance." [Abu Dawud, and at-Tirmidhi who said it was Hasan Sahih] And his sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam statement, "Whoever invents in this affair of ours what is not from it, then it is rejected." [Agreed Upon] And in a narration, "Whoever performs an action not in accordance with our affair, then it is rejected." [Sahih Muslim] So these two ahadith show that all newly invented things in the Religion are innovations, and every innovation is a rejected misguidance, [1] and the meaning of that is that innovation in belief and worship is forbidden. However, it's prohibition is according to the degree in the type of innovation, and from it is evident disbelief such as circumambulation around the graves in order to get closer to it's inhabitants, and offering sacrifices and vows to them and supplicating to their inhabitants, and seeking rescue with them. And such as the extremist statements of the Jahmiyyah and the Mu'tazilah. And from it is what is a means of shirk such as erecting the graves, and praying and supplicating to them. And from it is what is disobedience in creed such as the innovation of the limbs by the Qadariyyah, and the Murji'ah in their statements and belief in opposition to the proofs of the Shari'ah. And from it is sexual abstinence and fasting established in the sun, and castration with the intention of cutting off all desires [see al-I'itisam of ash-Shatibi (2/37)].

Warning

Whoever divides innovation [in the religion] into good innovation (bid'ah hasanah), and sinful innovation (bid'ah sayyi'ah), then he has committed wrong, and has opposed his sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam statement, "Every innovation is a misguidance," because the Messenger sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam ruled that innovation - all of it - is misguidance,[2] and this says that not all innovation is misguidance, rather there is good innovation. Al-Hafidh Ibn Rajab said in his commentary to al-Arba'in [that this hadith is] " ... from the all encompassing word, not excluding from it anything. And it is the greatest principle from the principles of the Religion. And it is associated with his sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam statement, 'Whoever invents in this affair of ours, what is not from it, then it is rejected.' So whoever invents things and attributes them to the religion, and it does not have an origin in the religion to return to, then it is misguidance, and the Religion is free from those things. And equal to that are matters of beliefs, or actions, or statements whether hidden, or manifest." [Jami' al-'Ulum wa'l-Hikam, p. 233] [3]
And there is not a proof for them that there is good innovation, except for the statement of 'Umar radiallahu 'anhu regarding the tarawih prayer, "What a good innovation this is!"
And they also say, "Verily there were things invented, and they were not objected to by the Salaf, like the collection of the Qur'an into one book, and the writing of the hadith, and recording them." So the answer to these is that these are matters which have an origin in the law (shar'), so they are not newly invented. And the statement of 'Umar radiallahu 'anhu "What a good innovation", he desires the linguistic innovation, and not the religious innovation (al-bid'ah ash-shar'iyyah). So whatever has an origin in the law, returns to it. If it is said that it is an innovation, then it is an innovation in language, and not in Islamic Law. So the religious innovation is what does not have an origin for it to return to. So the collecting of the Qur'an into one book has for it an origin in the law to return to, because the Prophet sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam had commanded the recording of the Qur'an, but it was written scattered so the Companions collected it into one book for it's protection. Indeed the Prophet prayed tarawih with his Companions radiallahu 'anhu nightly, and they had preferable fear about it in the appointment [of an Imam], and the continuing of the Companions in praying in separate groups in the lifetime of the Prophet and after his sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam passing, up until 'Umar Ibn al-Khattab united them on one Imam like how they used to be behind the Prophet (sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam), and this is not an innovation in the Religion. And the writing of the hadith also has an origin for it in the Law. Indeed the Prophet sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam commanded the writing of some ahadith for some of his Companions radiallahu 'anhum, so as to study that from it. [4]
And there was warning against writing it on regular paper according to his sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam advice fearing that there would get mixed with the Qur'an, that which was not from it. So when the Prophet sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam passed away, this warning was done away with - because the Qur'an was completed, and vowelized before his sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam passing. So the Muslims recorded the ahadith after that, preserving it from destruction. And may Allah reward Islam and the Muslims with good when they preserve the Book of their Lord, and the Sunnah of their Prophet sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam from destruction, and the mockery of the scornful. [5]
Kitab at-Tawhid
SHEIKH SALIH AL-FAWZAN

THINGS THAT BENEFIT THE DEAD

The Qur'an established two general principles concerning the reward and punishment for deeds:
  1. Each human will fundamentally only be benefited or harmed by the deeds which he or she actually did.
    " ... humans will only have the result of their own actions." [Al-Qur'an 53:39]
  2. No human can carry the sin of another.
    " ... no one bearing sins can carry the sins of others." [Al-Qur'an 53:38]
Consequently, when a person dies, the opportunity for that person to do good ends with the person's death. However, the chance to harvest good from deeds which were done prior to death remains.

Du'a (Supplication)

The prayers of other Muslims on behalf of the dead will benefit the dead, by the permission of God. Had they done no good, no one would consider praying for them. If they were evil, the prayers of others will not benefit them. Allah praises the believers who pray for those who have passed away before their time:
"And those who came after them say: Our Lord, forgive us and our brothers who preceded us in faith, and do not put in our hearts any hatred against the believers. Our Lord, You are indeed full of kindness, Most Merciful." [Al-Qur'an 59:10]
Furthermore, the funeral prayer itself consists mostly of prayers for the dead.
Safwan [the narrator mentioned that Safwan ibn 'Abdillah ibn Safwan was married to ad-Darda] said, "I visited Abud-Darda's home in Syria, but did not find him there. Ummud-Darda asked [me], 'Are you going to make Hajj this year?' I said: 'Yes.' She said, 'Pray to Allah for good for us, for the Prophet, upon whom be peace, said:
"The prayer of Muslim for his Muslim brother in his absence will be answered. As long as he prays for the good of his brother, there is an angel assigned near his head who says: amen, and may the same be for you." '
I left and went to the marketplace where I met Abud-Darda and he related from the Prophet, peace be upon him, the same as that." [Sahih Muslim, vol. 4, p. 1429, no. 6590]

Fasting

Fasts missed by dead persons may be done on their behalf by their close relatives. The fasts may be from Ramadhan or from oaths (nathar). 'A'ishah quoted Allah's Messenger, peace be upon him, as saying:
"Whoever died owing fasts, his guardian should fast on his behalf." [Sahih al-Bukhari, vol. 3, p. 99, no. 173, and Sahih Muslim, vol. 2, p. 556, no. 2553]
Ibn 'Abbas related that a man came to the Prophet, upon whom be peace, and asked: O Messenger of Allah, my mother died owing one month of fasting. Should I do it for her? He replied:
"Yes, debts to Allah, have more right to be paid." [Sahih al-Bukhari, vol. 3, p. 99, no. 174, and Sahih Muslim, vol. 2, p. 556, no. 2554]
In another narration a woman asked about her mother’s debt of fasting and got the same reply. [Sahih Muslim, vol. 2, pp. 556-7, nos. 2554, 2557-61]

Paying Financial Debts

Anyone may cover the debts of a dead person, whether they are relatives or not. Furthermore, the payment of outstanding debts can benefit the dead by relieving them from some of the punishment due to them for their negligence in repaying them.
Jabir narrated that a man died and they washed him, perfumed him and shrouded him. Then he was brought to Allah's Messenger, peace be upon him, to lead the funeral prayer for him. They asked, "Could you pray for him?" He took a step forward then asked:
"Does he have any outstanding debts?"
It was answered: "Two dinar."
He said:
"Make the funeral prayer for your companion," and began to leave.
Abu Qatadah took responsibility for [paying] the debt, saying, "The two dinar are my responsibility." Allah's Messenger, peace be upon him, asked:
"Will the creditor be taken care of and will the dead person be absolved from them?"
He replied, "Yes," so the Prophet, upon whom be peace, led the funeral prayer for him. A day later he asked Abu Qatadah:
"What was done about the two dinar?"
He replied, "He only died yesterday!" The following day he returned to the Prophet and said, "I have paid them off." The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, said:
"Now his skin has become cool." [Musnad Ahmad, vol. 3, p. 330; authenticated in Ahkamul-Jana'iz, p. 16]

The Charity of Children

Parents will benefit from whatever righteous deeds their children do, without decreasing the reward of their children's good deeds. A righteous child is considered to be part of the parent's earnings.
'Umarah ibn 'Umayr's aunt asked 'A'ishah, "I have an orphan under my guardianship. May I consume some of his wealth?" She replied that she had heard Allah's Messenger, peace be upon him, say:
"Among the most pleasant things a man consumes is what comes from his own earnings, and his child is from his earnings." [Sunan Abu Dawud, vol. 2, p. 1002, no. 3521; authenticated in Sahih Sunan Abi Dawud, vol. 2, p. 674, no. 3013]
'A'ishah related that a man asked the Prophet: My mother died suddenly, and I think that if she had spoken [before dying], she would have given something in charity. If I give charity on her behalf, will she get the reward? He replied:
"Yes." [Sahih al-Bukhari, vol. 2, p. 266, no. 470, Sahih Muslim, vol. 3, p. 866, no. 4002, and Sunan Abu Dawud, vol. 2., p. 812, no. 2875]
Abu Hurayrah quoted the Messenger of Allah, upon whom be peace, as saying:
"When a man dies, his acts come to an end, except in three cases: an ongoing charity, knowledge from which people continue to benefit, and a righteous child who prays for him." [Sahih Muslim, vol. 3, p. 867, no. 4005, and Sunan Abu Dawud, vol. 2, p. 812, no. 2874]
May Allah reward the author